Not easy being gay in St. Vincent! Part 1

My Partner and I

My Partner and I

I am gay and I am a Vincentian. Since I have discovered and accepted my sexuality, life has been extremely difficult for me and my partner of seven years. It is not at all easy for a so called “buller man” in a backward country like St. Vincent and the Grenadines.

I am an ordinary, decent and law abiding citizen. I am a hard working professional who pays his fair share of taxes and contributes positively to the development of this country. Yet, I am treated like an outcast all because of my sexual preference.

As a teenager my father spat on me; he kicked me out of his house and severed all ties with me when he heard that I was “bulling”. I must thank my grand mother for rescuing me from the streets. I have had to put up with taunting and name calling; I lived with threats and intimidation; I was treated like the lowest of the low for a situation I could not help at all. I was an outcast for being a homosexual.

Thank God I survive! Not only that, I am liberated! I have shed the guilt and shame that burdened me for years. I earn a good income doing a job I love and I have been in a committed relationship with one partner whom I love dearly for nearly seven years. My life is not perfect but it’s getting there.

If you allow me, I would like to use this blog to share with the world, my experiences as a “buller man” in St. Vincent and the Grenadines.

74 responses to this post.

  1. Posted by Leo on November 4, 2016 at 12:24 am

    If you are going to quote the bible, perhaps we might chose when Jesus asked us to love our neighbours as we love ourselves. Perhaps we might think about what was said about casting the first stone? Perhaps we might remember that the Lord disposes ‘He that soweth discord among brethren’ amongst other vices?

    All in all, I wonder how much more hate does the world need?

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  2. I find it hard in this day and age to understand why certain people would judge. There is the law and there is God he is the ultimate judge of us all so if am man or woman decides that they are happier in same sex relationships so be it. To many die as a result of being judged by man. For every finger you point remember 4 are pointing back.

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  3. Posted by Proud Vinci on October 9, 2012 at 11:58 am

    Your situation is unfortunate, I think that some people in our country has a ways to go when it comes to equity with people of different sexual orientation. Having said that, I don’t think that the everyone should be classed as backwards. I know many gay people living in St. Vincent who are open. Of course at times they may not be treated fairly, I can say the same for gay friends living in other countries. The only thing stopping them for being treated the same way at times is a lawsuit or jail time. I am sorry that your family and people around you are backwards, but know that not everyone in SVG is like that.

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  4. Posted by ray connor on September 22, 2012 at 8:44 pm

    wonder how many of the anti gay posters who quote God and the bible have had sex outside marriage ?????

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  5. Posted by Amanda Dopwell on July 18, 2012 at 2:47 pm

    As far as am concerned , no matter how much gay persons try to turn and twist things….its just WRONG! Didnt God destroy a city for this sordid act? Didn’t God get his point across? He could’ve allowed them in the city to ask for repentance but instead he burnt it down! Its clear he wasnt pleased! Please don’t try to make up excuses and all kind of scenarios validating this abomination. You know what is right, do the right thing. If you read and understand your bible, you would realise that satan comes in all shape and form to lure you to his side. With these gay men, satan has succeeded in his quest. I am totally disgusted at this lifestyle. before any of you reply and try to barage me, let me clear it up for u, i am young, married and have a kid. so am following what the Most high said to do. DISGUSTING!

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    • Posted by Chris on September 28, 2013 at 7:20 am

      To attack your argument Amanda, I think you need to read the bible again. God destroyed the city because of the wickedness that was going on; the men wanted to rape the angels!!! In my opinion, and I emphasize my opinion, the issue here is rape.

      Now, if “gayness” was an issue, why was Jesus silent on it? Paul spoke about it in the New Testament but in a few verses. And the verses that mentioned something near homosexuality, is left up to the interpreter. Many religious minded folks try to interpret it in a heterosexual way; homosexuals would do the same.

      My point to you is this: not because something disgusts you means it’s wrong!! Further, you are in no position to tell a person how he or she should feel. Did you choose your feelings?

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  6. Posted by packard on March 30, 2012 at 10:53 pm

    Quite a few rants here. It always amazes me when people set themselves up as authorities on subjects they know nothing about. You heteros who seem to know so much about gay reality need a double dose of humility. Leave religion out of this. Read your bible again. It authorizes fathers to kill their disobedient children, approves of slavery and the whippings that go with it.

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  7. Posted by gayand proud on February 24, 2012 at 6:51 pm

    i am a lesbian and i see nothing wrong with a woman or a man marrying the same sex. he without sin cast the first stone

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  8. Posted by gayand proud on February 24, 2012 at 6:50 pm

    what is wrong with a woman marrying a woman am a lesbian and i plan to get married to a woman one day i see nothing wrong with it. he without sin cast the first stone

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  9. […] 4, 2011, Vinci Kallaloo posted an article from a man claiming to be  homosexual. It was entitled: Not Easy Being Gay in St. Vincent and the Grenadines – Part 1. That article attracted 3, 488 hits and nearly 50 comments from our readers in a relatively short […]

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  10. Live and let live. Freedom of choice. Choose the one you love and the one who loves you for who or what you are. No man have the right to judge you. You’re happy with you man; I’m happy with my wife. Enjoy life…………There are many still in the closet in SVG, young and old…………………….

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    • Posted by Navy Vincy on December 12, 2011 at 12:31 pm

      Neil what you talking bout? Really? you listen to yourself…If I know n better although you say you happy with your wife you sound like you go be happy with a man too…Bout live and let live..nobody aint saying bullerman should be killed or they should be cast out from society..well i aint saying that but you cant act as though because two guys love each other in that way its right….ITS WORNG….you just promoting and encouraging it…no wonder the young guys now have to grow up thinkin its ok….people like you talknig bout Enjoy it….and you have a wife? you not happy with ur wife otherwise you would have bun bull….you talk bout freedom of choice? Well freedom of speech….nobody aint judging….we just saying ”bun bull”…if we say yes yo happy wiht yo man sso its ok then we could say its ok if a 25yr old guy have sex with a 12yr old girl….right? WRONG IS WRONG….HAPPINESS OR NOT….”BUN BULL”

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      • Posted by Kert on December 12, 2011 at 7:14 pm

        Those who yell the loudest always have the most to hide… Whose idea of wrong or right we are talking about here? King James was said to have 4 male lovers, the first by the time he was 15. You do know who King James was right?

      • Posted by Amanda Dopwell on July 18, 2012 at 3:37 pm

        lol…@ kert….please make mention of people God directly commisioned and not these worldly kings. Talk about kings God himself sanctioned to carry out certain works for him. U started off so good and u regressed. Remember riches of this world are nothing!

      • Posted by Chris on September 28, 2013 at 7:27 am

        Bun bull?! Dude are u living in the 1700s?! Lol… Your comment is filled with such hate and passion, and you expect the younger generation to listen to you? Like seriously? So because you said its wrong, it’s wrong?! Here is your chance; prove your point if you have one!! This is the Information Age; do your research and come again.

        With luv

      • Posted by Caitlin (Troy) on April 18, 2016 at 12:56 am

        Listen, if you want to hate against the LGBT community that’s fine, it’s your option. I’m a lesbian and I love myself. I get bullied on a everyday basis. I get told I’m going to hell for my sexual preference. My cousin was told that killing gays is a good thing and that all gays should be killed? I love my cousin and would do anything for him, but it hurts when he tells you that staring you in the eyes. Use to I went to church, I thought it was a good thing. But one day, my preacher said all gays should go to hell. I got upset and walked out, because he was preaching hate and that’s not what Christains should do. Christains should love everyone for who they are, not force themselves onto others trying to make them what they are not. On the other hand, does love thy neighbor mean nothing anymore? I lost my fate due to all those who have condemned me, rejected me, and bullied me. It’s strange how out of all the species in the world there is homosexuality in every single one. But, only one species has homophobia…HUMANS. Wow!!! Now which one seems wrong.
        P.S. If you want to rant about how wrong it is, use proper English and grammar. It could also show that you know what you’re talking about.

    • Posted by shazzy on August 23, 2014 at 11:48 am

      I agree with you

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  11. Posted by Lulu Mack on December 11, 2011 at 8:59 pm

    After god created the heaven and earth and every thing that is on it. He created man in his own image. So therefore he created a male and female. And God blessed them .And said unto them “Be fruit-ful,and multiply,and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have power over it”.

    And The Bible went on to say that ” It is not good that a man should be alone; I will make him a helper”. And he put Adam to sleep and took one of his ribs and made a woman. And brought her to him. And Adam said ” This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh.And she shall be called woman

    According to The Bible god did not make 2 man. So men should stop their nasty behavior and accept the word of God.

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  12. Posted by Beverly on December 11, 2011 at 4:23 pm

    I will not judge anyone, that is for God, however, I cannot see how someone would enjoy dabbling in s..t. Yuk!

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  13. Posted by Lorne on December 9, 2011 at 11:45 pm

    Hear me now hear me now
    Lord me know me ah one proud Vincie and me na want no lesbian and batty man confront me cause them ah pure sin and abomination and disgrace in ah this ya land, God meck Adam and Eve he never meck Adam fo Steve so stop the bulling and the nastyness man stop wearing woman’s draws and dress and give Jah some due respect, What the hell is this world coming to woman marrying woman and man wearing woman’s shoe me na mess with them they kallalloo.

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    • Posted by Chris on September 28, 2013 at 7:32 am

      All I am hearing Lorne is your opinion, opinion, opinion…. Do some research and come up with some hard facts!!! You are yet to prove your point.

      With Luv

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  14. Posted by John on December 9, 2011 at 8:16 am

    Young Man/Woman however you would like to be referred, if you can take a dick you can take strong criticism. In my book i dont support batty man but aslong as your 18yrs and over your old enough to do what you feel like do but live with the consequences.

    After all is said and done all batty man fu get fire.

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    • Posted by Chris on September 28, 2013 at 7:34 am

      And you wrote a book? Lord have mercy!! LMBO
      Sorry bro, but if you are a writer, please come up with something better than that!!

      With luv

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  15. Posted by Disgusted on December 8, 2011 at 4:51 am

    Ah boy, what a world..Law abiding? You need to check the law book again

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  16. Posted by cd on December 7, 2011 at 8:45 pm

    Now I have read majority of these comments including the article. first of all I have no problems with “GAYS” I have gay friends but that does not mean that I would encourage their sexual preference or think that such preference is right. As a medical Student I know that as some one stated earlier the “ass” is a one way traffic, do you know the amount of diseases that one can get by entering there? In this practise the AIDS virus is mostly spread to both sexes because some of these men who are gay have wifes or girlfriends and they have sex or whatever you call it with these men and still go and have sex with your girlfriend. Now please if you want to be gay I suggest you keep it in the closet. Think about how many diseases you can spread…take this situation: now you have sex with a man, the man have sex with another man(WHO has AIDS) who have sex with your son from your first marriage and give him AIDS…NOW you would want to kill that man now won’t you especially if your son is in University at the peak of his career.

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    • Posted by cd on December 7, 2011 at 8:50 pm

      and for this Writers information our country is not backwards….so please save your trash talkin about my country.

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    • Posted by Chris on September 28, 2013 at 7:39 am

      Dear medical student,

      Your argument is flawed, hence it’s difficult for me to establish what you really want to say. On the face of it though, your argument seems structured more around unfaithfulness an the spread of disease. Are you assuming that all “batty man” cheat? What about those in long term committed relationships? And won’t the result be the same for heterosexuals who cheat?

      With luv

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  17. Posted by Raymond Richardson on December 6, 2011 at 5:47 pm

    Homosexuality is nothing short of sexual deviance! Thanks to the political power amassed by gay and lesbian community, politicians, civic leaders and the business community has chosen to accommodate homosexuality and has succeeded in convincing everyone under thirty that homosexuality is normal behavior. If it is, where is the definitive scientific evidence to support such a claim? I am in favor of a national campaign designed to rehabilitate anyone inclined to be sexual devious and provide council aimed at redirecting their sexual disorientation in accordance with what nature intended. It’s time we wake up and set the record straight! If homosexuality was intended to be normal sexual behavior, why can’t same sex encounters result in human reproduction? Let’s face it, sex was meant to perpetuate life through reproduction, but it is humans who chose to experiment with different approaches to sex and in the process over centuries of social evolution managed to sway people with devious tendencies to depart from the norm and create a subculture we now refer to as the gay and lesbian community. Do not be fooled by disingenuous politicians who will do or support anything that is politically expedient despite the burden that such decisions inflict on the social fabric.
    P.S…..After living in the US / NYC for a very long time and having the opportunity to interact with people from all walks of life and sexual orientation, my observations and anecdotal evidence lead me to conclude that political expediency was reasonable for redefining homosexuality and integrating the life style into the larger society as “normal” and acceptable behavior.

    Onward,
    Reggie

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  18. Posted by gyalist for life on December 5, 2011 at 3:15 pm

    this is sum sick stuff man,AND FOR ALL YOU PPL WHO CALLIN GOD GOD GOD…….HERES SUMN TO THINK OF…..IMAGIN IF COLUMBUS SHIP DID SINK BEFORE HIM REACH HERE ….WE WOULDNT AH KNO NOTHING ABOUT CHRISTIANITY….WE WOULDA BEEN PREACHIN A DIFFERENT MESSAGE…..STILL IN AFRICA OR THOSE OF CARIB DECENT STILL DOING WAH WE DID……FOOD FOR THOUGHT……..AN FOR ALL YOU CLOSET GAYS AN OPEN GAYS …..BUN BULL……LOOK HOW THEM A SPOIL THE YOUTH THEM….PASTOR WHO A PREACH AH RIDE OFF THE YOUTH THEM ALL THE COACHES AN TEACHERS SMFH …….THOSE KIDS WERENT GAY OR FELT LIKE THATS HOW THEM BORN …YALL SPOIL THEM ……DONE WITH THE FUKRY AN STOP THE NASTINESS…..GYAL ME SAY TILL ME DIE AYOU STOP DEH BULL AH MORE GYAL FEE ME!!!!!

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    • Posted by Caitlin (Troy) on April 18, 2016 at 1:03 am

      If Columbus’s did sink, they would have sent someone else. Either way it was fate for them to come over and we can’t change that. Also, maybe my people wouldn’t have been killed off and endangered all because white people wanted land. Think about that. The USA was created for religious freedom. But now it’s all about Christianity and if it’s not, your wrong and you are going to hell.

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  19. Posted by R mack on December 5, 2011 at 1:39 pm

    why do we fine someone or organisation to blame for the masty habits . There is our God to turn to and to live a life pleasing to him ,each person is resposible for the chioces they make and iif you make the one ones them blame yourself . According to God’s will a man should not be with a man nore a woman to woman ,what next are we going to see man with animal then tell me that is there sexual prefrence can’t we see all this is wrong and masty .Get out of that fire will burn you

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    • Posted by Chris on September 28, 2013 at 7:49 am

      One word for you: HERMAPHRODITE. Let me know if it was God who created that person. If so, was that person created to burn?

      With Luv

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  20. Posted by Hazel Ann king on December 5, 2011 at 1:54 am

    i am not one to jugde or condemn anyone so all i am going to say is you chose your path in life , its you and God not me. Goodluck being Gay in vincy land

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  21. Posted by God's Servant on December 4, 2011 at 6:02 pm

    i would really love for you to check out this site. I hope that it gives you deeper understanding of what you consider to be a “natural” thing. http://www.christianityandhomosexuality.com/

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    • Posted by kevin marshall on December 4, 2011 at 9:36 pm

      christianity and homosexuality cannot and will not go in hand point.if it does then GOD will be a liar and we all know he cannot lie.so take that bag of rubbish and shove it

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      • Posted by Amanda Dopwell on July 18, 2012 at 2:51 pm

        amen!!!!!!

      • Posted by Chris on September 28, 2013 at 7:52 am

        God is no liar, and he does not make mistakes. We humans are the liars and the ones who twist and turn his words to suit ourselves, or the majority.

        With Luv

  22. Posted by Donny on December 4, 2011 at 3:08 pm

    And Please do not involve God in your Batty business. I do not know why we tolerate such acts and why the ass you are so Waste loving. if you know the anatomy you will realize the ass expels all the waste. i cannot imagine seeing anyone playing up in that.
    It is dangerous and unhealthy. more so you are harboring a lot of sickness mind ,body and soul.

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  23. Posted by Donny on December 4, 2011 at 2:54 pm

    This Bulling thing is going to far. To many lovely,lonely women around for that shit in the ass. How the f— you find yourself in someone else shit tank. Man for a Woman it was and always will be the best and sweetest. Not John for Jim, Sam for Sammy it is not only nasty but think of all those million of Micro-organism that lives in the large intestines, E. cloi which is considered part of the normal flora can also be very dangerous. And there are so much more, stop blaming genetics or personalities you r just f—— nasty.

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    • Posted by Chris on September 28, 2013 at 7:56 am

      That’s your opinion Donny!! And you are entitled to it. You seem a bit educated, so you will know that the ass does not only dispense waste. Then if such is the case, ask a few women why they enjoy anal sex…

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  24. Posted by whateva on December 3, 2011 at 2:01 am

    I AM A “(((LESBIAN ))SO DEAL WITH IT AM ALSO A PROUD VINCENTIAN

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    • Posted by Ziggy A Small on December 7, 2011 at 4:15 pm

      Good luck to you and your being gay/lesbian whatever..It was and is not a part of gods plan to his children….its disgusting and you should get your act together…a woman for a man..that was our master’s plan…(not a man for a man or a woman for a woman)
      You suck!

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    • Posted by Navy Vincy on December 12, 2011 at 12:44 pm

      Obviously you havnt met the guy to giv you some good woody otherwise you would chang ur les ways…..The same reasons you with a woman would be the same reasons you will have for a guy if he is on the same level…..so what does that say? Is patient people dont have why yo see dem does go opposite…them cant wait so instead them bull….”SHORTCUT RELATIONSHIP” me call that and me nah live that…..saying that tho i wont mind see you and yo woman get down in it..:)

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    • Posted by Caitlin (Troy) on April 18, 2016 at 1:06 am

      Same here, I’m a lesbian. Go girl and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

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  25. Posted by whateva on December 3, 2011 at 1:53 am

    why does vincentian act this way god made all of us regadless and sometimes its what make you happy.ppl judge but some of them who judge do far what they againt its No big deal cOs god made us all andlove us equally,this is not the old ages things happen inlife that we dont have controll of and if your gay /lesbian its not a big deal SOME may not accept YOU COS U didnt grow up this way but sometimes after getting hurt so much in relationship of the opposite sex sometimes ppl go a stray yall sin also sodont judgeeven christian inthere is noperfect person on earth without sin the only person without sin is god.JUDGE NOT

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    • Posted by Pnut on December 9, 2011 at 5:57 pm

      sherry what you talking bout? no excuses to be gay.God give people choices and some choose to be strait and some choose to be gay…saying that…God also made laws and only expects us to do right and good things…..you telling me that bulling is a good thing and God would accept that? you talking shit…God loves his children tru but remember…when the day of judgement come is not all his children he going to save….why is that? you need to stop talking bout God and understand him better before you mention him…people like you I need to wise up….Bun Bull…

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    • Posted by Chris on September 28, 2013 at 8:02 am

      You started off well, but at the end you are assuming that being gay is a sin. In my opinion, it is not. To me, for something to be a sin, there has to be the opportunity to choose; right or wrong. The majority of gay guys did not choose their feelings. On an even more serious note, who would choose to be gay in a place like St. Vincent?

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  26. Posted by Kelly on December 2, 2011 at 5:35 pm

    I was born in the United Kingdom and i once a man or a woman knows and are comfortable with there sexuality i dont see the need for them to hate or feel intimidated by gay people, 95% of guys who are always threatening, harassing or branding some 1 GAY,thts basically because they themselves are Gay and insecure about themselves so they have to carry out these actions to make themselves feel better and to try and withdraw themselves out of the light, because they think some 1 suspects,2ND the smaller Caribbean island are so influence by the Jamaican Culture I can assure u that here in the uk or Canada or the us,(THEY GAY SCENE ARE OVER CROWED WITH JAMAICANS,THE GAY CHAT/DATING SITES ARE PREDOMINANTLY JAMAICAN}and these are the same 1’s who would be preaching anti-gay stuff to you the smaller islands,3rd for those who are using the Bible as a weapon,Yes the Bible states Homosexuality is a sin,it also stated that sex out of marriage is also,the Bible also stated that SIN IS A SIN,none is Greater than any,,,,,,,,,”’LET HE WHO IS WITH OUT SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE” 1:YOU LIE–ITS A SIN,2:YOU STILL—ITS A SIN,3:YOU KILL-ITS A SIN,YOU BEAR FALSE WITNESS—ITS A SIN,,,4:YOU EVEN AS MUCH HAD A UNGODLY THOUGH OF SOME 1,AS MUCH AS SAYING TO YOURSELF YOU DONT LIKE THAT PERSON IT IS A SIN,THE BIBLE STATED GOD MAN BOTH MAN AND WOMAN IN HIS OWN IMAGE,,,,,,,,,,,,,ALOT OF YOU GUYS WHO ARE SO DEFENSIVE WHEN IT COMES TO GAY PEOPLE THAT’S PURELY BECAUSE U YOURSELVES ARE GAY

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  27. Posted by blueflower on December 2, 2011 at 2:08 pm

    i personally don’t hate the peple who are gay because human by nature are curropt it only takes God to uncurrupt us. but i fell bad for them because they are controlled by the spirit of astroth which is the sexual emorality demon. every one is loved dearly by God, but You can only be saved while life is still in you but after death he cannot save you

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  28. Posted by sherry on December 1, 2011 at 10:49 pm

    I think people need to get over their gays and lesbian phobia accept people for who they are.

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    • Posted by kerry on December 3, 2011 at 2:48 am

      it is wrong they will be punish just like how God punish sad
      and Gomorra

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      • Posted by Chris on September 28, 2013 at 8:07 am

        And who knows? He might punish you for being a false prophet too? Remember, all of us are created by God!! You don’t have a right to judge or mislead people.

        With Luv

    • Posted by Navy Vincy on December 12, 2011 at 12:48 pm

      accept people for who they are? but listen to this ya corrupted sherry person here…..is people like you does turn hypocrite over night cause if yo hav ah man and he leave yo for another man…..yo going run them down…yo will see how quick yo change yo tongue……talking bout accept people for who they are…..yea accept those ones that doenst have a choice…those that are blind or deaf or cant read or have one leg or one hand…that we can accept….not bullers…..no ……them choose that….

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  29. Posted by Nicholas cyrus on September 15, 2011 at 2:00 pm

    i am proud of being from SVG what i am not proud of is all the hipocrits that live there and use the church and the bible to stage there hate. one guy said GOD distroy Sodom and Gomorah because of homosexuality that is not true he distroy the city because they were wicked. GOD love gay people because they are GODS children he is not judgeing them because of there sexual prefrence but by the content of there heart . i think if we can do the same life would be more productive only GOD can judge he is the only one without sin.toall my gay brothers and sisters GOD love you and you are no different than the socall straight people.

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    • were u drunk when u read da bible?….God loves sinners but he does not encourage sin…i think you need to re-read my comment but let me reiterate man to woman, that is GODS plan thats why he made adam and eve. if he wanted men to go with men, he would have made two men in the first place…Go read ya bible nigga!, b4 i go ghetto on your on your voided comments

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      • Posted by Chris on September 28, 2013 at 8:13 am

        Boy shut up!!! Lol… That was a joke…

        On a serious note: you see anyone else being created like Adam and Eve?! It’s now from a sperm and egg, not dust. We are all God’s handy work!!! So, stop using the bible as an excuse in an area where you clearly lack expertise.

        Research and Come Again!!

        With Luv

    • Posted by kevin marshall on December 4, 2011 at 2:01 pm

      thats true but there is a reason why GOD made male and female….yes he loves everyone one but he does not but as a loving parent does not appreciate our wicked ways that are against his principles….e.g killing, stealing etc…..sin is sin……its an abomination against GOD for a man to lay with another man like wise woman to woman……we have acknowledged the homosexual trend but it will not be accepted as right in the eyes of the lord and we shouldnt see it as right either…..i love everyone but i donot love all their actions point! P.S READF YOUR BIBLE AND SEE WHAT GOD STANDS FOR BEFORE YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH WITH NON SENSE

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    • Posted by Pnut representing town hill community on December 9, 2011 at 6:06 pm

      Nicholas…is people like you that need to be burn in fire beofre judgement day comes….what you talking bout God loves gay…and Andrew what you talking bout God loves sinners….Alyo talking krap…God doesn not love gay….cause gay is wrong….and he does not love sinners…why wouild he have sent Jesus if he love sinners? Common sense people….jesus came to save sinners..judgement day is still coming….Sin is sin…evil is evil…bulling is bulling….IT IS WRONG!!! and if any bullerman who live in SVG think we will ever support Gays…THINK AGAIN…we bun ‘gays like alpha and omega..from the beginning till the end…better move to usa or uk to live a free bulling life…SVG NEVER SUPPORT IT..i from TOWN HILL and i tell you now…any bullerman we find up there will get bun out…..BUN OUT!!!!

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    • Posted by Donny on December 13, 2011 at 2:54 am

      Again you fu—– hypocrite, involving God in your batty business. guess you are one ah them who like eating shit. it is high time you realize woman was made for a woman. not mam fo man. go get yourself some pussy. leave that shit tank alone.

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  30. well to this guy, i have to say i lived in svg for over 10 years and i know that the society does not tolerate homosexuality, you cant blame them because that was never in our culture we were taught that homosexuality was wrong and is still wrong today. the same “God” that you are thanking for saving you is the same God that destroyed a whole city-Soddom and Gomorrah for those same immoral activities that you are indulging in. I also, in no way tolerate homosexuals or homosexuality. I am strongly against it and some may even say that i am homophobic. but i urge you to go back to your historical roots and heed to religious education and seek divine intervention and hopefully you will come to the understanding that your ways are wrong, immoral and you will burn in hell for them. the bible say woe be unto those who try to make the wrong, right and the right, wrong!….woe be unto them. homosexuality is not a moral act, it is wrong. In fact that is common knowledge and should be self explanatory, any practicing christian should know this because as we say colloquially God created Adam and Eve, not Steve….he created man and woman, women was made to copulate with men to reproduce mankind. If being gay was right then mankind will be lost because two men cannot reproduce and there will be no more mankind, we will all die and the world will be empty…thats a little science to substantiate my humble words to you.

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    • Posted by blueflower on December 2, 2011 at 1:52 pm

      that was well said if these people only know the pain that behelds them in hell after death one unfair thing is to suffer in life and in eternity as well.

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    • Posted by AVG on December 4, 2011 at 3:03 pm

      WELL SVG IN FOR A CULTURAL SHOCK ! GAYS & LESBIANS ARE COMING OUT IN FULL SWING. THE YOUNG PEOPLE NO LONGER CARE WHAT THE HELL PEOPLE THINK ABOUT THEM ANYMORE. THEY JUST LIVING THEIR LIVES ON THEIR OWN TERMS. SO VINCY PEOPLE BETTER GET OVER THIS SHIT ! GAYS RULE !!!!

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  31. Posted by Jed Clampet on September 5, 2011 at 10:24 am

    Why was Earlyn Warren response to Jody and yekiyleyah deleted?
    Does the operators of this site have something to hide as Valid points and facts were raised.

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  32. Posted by Earlyn Warren on September 5, 2011 at 9:15 am

    @ yekiyleyah first thing to you I am not GAY, A Practising GAY or ever been gay, so keep your insinuations to your illiterate self .

    @ Jody Loiseau and yekiyleyah it appears that you surely don’t the history of the Black people in the Caribbean. Christianity was used to Keep Slaves in Captivity. Racist often preaches the words of the Gospel to further their beliefs.
    The Catholic Church used Christianity to cover up Child abuses worldwide. It was also used as a tool to abuse Native American Children in Canada.
    Christianity was used to cheat the blackman out his property and the Native Americans in on the American Continent (North, Central and South) out of their livelihoods.
    Christianity has been the caused of many a war from Ancient time to present.
    Terrorism and the war on Terror is all about religion and religious beliefs.
    How many churches from the different religious bodies were built from the proceeds of crime? So as Kojo would say, wheel and come again.

    Show me where I am angry with religion or blaming religion for being the cause of all the ills in Society? My exact words are “You also got to understand that Christianity and religion are responsible for the many ills in society” and ” You got to understand dude that homosexuality though practised is not an accepted form of life in the Caribbean. People prefer a practising gay to be a closet gay as against an in your face gay.”. So instead of you two talking out of your behinds and trying to imply that I said some that i didn’t imply, you morons should learn to read and interpret before commenting on other peoples post..

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    • Posted by sadam on September 10, 2011 at 9:17 am

      Svg is not a backward country!! you bullers are so perverted that you try to say everything and anything so as to “feel” correct. you are morally corrupt!! spiritually bound. Why dont you try a pussy for only once? I gaurantee you will never go back to batty again

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      • Posted by card factory on December 2, 2011 at 7:26 pm

        Love your response….well said….these are ppl with no backbone…easily influenced by the super powers ….homosexuality has never been accepted home and the quicker these scums get that in their gay brain, life would be easier for them…..Fire!…bun dem!

  33. Posted by yekiyleyah on September 4, 2011 at 8:33 pm

    @Earlyn Warren – ‘Christianity is responsible for the many ills in society?’ You got to be out of your mind. Christianity my friend allowed the poor to be educated, kept many a youngster out of jail, fed the hungry, clothed the naked, liberated women, freed the slaves, conquered racism, established homes for the aged, abused and orphans, established schools, hospitals and charities, established disaster relief agencies etc.
    U cannot be angry with a religion which teaches that God intends a man for a woman. Else you would not be born if it weren’t for that fact.
    Live your homosexual life, but leave Christianity out of it.

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  34. I am proud to be Vincy, tek yo bulling somewhere else, the rectum was given to us to pass waste….run way.

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  35. Posted by Earlyn Warren on September 4, 2011 at 10:09 am

    You got to understand dude that homosexuality though practised is not an accepted form of life in the Caribbean. People prefer a practising gay to be a closet gay as against an in your face gay.
    I live in a society and environment where homosexuality is accepted but it is still frown upon, so don’t think it is only in the Caribbean that this happens.
    You also got to understand that Christianity and religion are responsible for the many ills in society and whilst you may feel threathened or intimidated, it is part and parcel of being Gay in the Caribbean.
    I personally, have no problems with gays although I do not tolerate what is known in the UK as Camp Gays ( Gays who are just to effeminate). S
    So please understand you are a product of the society and environment you grew up in and certain things in life will not be tolerated in certain society and environments.

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    • Posted by Jody Loiseau on September 4, 2011 at 9:58 pm

      To say that “Christianity and religion are responsible for the many ills in society” is absolutely ludicrous. As a Christian I take offense to that comment because I serve a God who hates sin but loves the sinner. I in no way condone ANYBODY to abuse someone in any way because of their sexuality. I follow what my Bible says and believe that God will judge whom He will judge. However, I will stand up for righteousness and holiness. The fact that homosexuals are mistreated is not a reflection on Christianity but on those “so-called-Christians” who have appointed themselves as judge.

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    • Posted by Earlyn Warren on September 5, 2011 at 12:46 pm

      Why was my reply to this removed Kallaloo? Is it to make your aricle and the ignorant comments of people like Jody Loiseau and yekiyleyah look credible?

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      • Posted by Earlyn Warren on September 5, 2011 at 12:47 pm

        Why was my reply to this removed Kallaloo? Is it to make your article and the ignorant comments of people like Jody Loiseau and yekiyleyah look credible?

    • Posted by roch on December 5, 2011 at 4:23 pm

      I think the western world is getting in these people brain and turning them stupid.We are a little third world country trying to survive and look what is happening we are killing our selves with the nastiness that was originated in the western world.Thats not our thing why are we allowing these kind of people change who we are? Adam for Eve please let us get back our black indentity.

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  36. Posted by bafomettic on September 4, 2011 at 9:01 am

    nice thought provoking fiction noi names are attached any picture can be placed her so this si yet to believed.

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